Suicide—The Trap of the Family System

An exploration of the connection between the family system, childhood trauma, and suicide—and becoming suicidal. Becoming suicidal almost always indicates that a person has been severely traumatized in his or her life, and that these traumas were never properly resolved. If a person could resolve his or her traumas he would have no need to express himself through the horrible bind of killing him. So often a suicidal person is caught in the bind of desperately needing to tell the truth about his childhood and family in order to heal, but feeling totally unable to tell the truth because of the consequences it would bring. So suicide—the worst course of action of all, because it is an action stripped of all hope and potential for future growth—becomes an easier option in his or her mind. There are always other options than suicide—if a person gets the opportunity to discover these options. Hope is sometimes closer than we realize For more on this subject, visit www.iraresoul.com

Android Application: market.android.com Amazon Kindle ebook: www.amazon.com You are staying in a manipulative relationship because you believe you are so deeply invested in your relationship that you have nowhere else to go now. Sometimes hope can be paralyzing & prolongs the torment if it is invested in someone who isn’t sincere to you & your emotional well-being. You are not insane. Clear the doubt about what the other person is really doing to you. Lying, Denying, Talking behind your back, Ruining your reputation, Turning people against you, Humiliate you by making other people interfere in your personal affairs, then acting real angry & hurt with teary eyes that s/he loves you & doesn’t know what you are talking about & end up making you feel ashamed & guilty of suspecting him/her by believing other people. You are confused & don’t know what to believe. You know you are being lied to but the lie is told with so much conviction & strong denial that you begin to doubt your own senses. It’s a very dangerous & crazy making betrayal. A manipulative person lies & denies everything. S/he is always pretending to be victimized by the victim. It’s very frustrating arguing with him/her. S/he will shamelessly shift the blame on you & make you feel guilty, distrustful & paranoid. Victims feel empty, tired, and without energy. Nothing interests them. They will sometimes contemplate Suicide! Hopelessness has taken away your will to live. You quickly lose interest in everything
Video Rating: 4 / 5


8 Comments so far »

  1. katrinalma1 said,

    Wrote on July 27, 2012 @ 3:37 pm

    Excellent video, Daniel! I’ve coached and trained peer responders and have done a number of suicide interventions myself.  I will definitely use this video for future training. Yes, it’s all about hope — offering hope through empathy and bearing to real suffering! Thank you so much for your wisdom!

  2. carniekatie said,

    Wrote on July 27, 2012 @ 4:02 pm

    is this not the human experiance? hypocricy, pain and suffering? you cannot “get real” in todays modern society, it doesn’t work. honesty is distructive and isolating. life is the disease- death is the cure, my poor friend.

  3. digitaltango said,

    Wrote on July 27, 2012 @ 4:02 pm

    You have just described my breakdown! Two years of terror and I thought of suicide relentlessly. Thankfully, I survived. I have written about my experiences of depression and terror in my piece ‘Hope, Time and Love’ about the possibilities of healing after this kind of experience.

  4. misterbs1 said,

    Wrote on July 27, 2012 @ 4:50 pm

    Spot on! Splendid and simple presentation.

  5. katrinalma1 said,

    Wrote on July 27, 2012 @ 5:18 pm

    Excellent video, Daniel! I’ve coached and trained peer responders and have done a number of suicide interventions myself. I will definitely use this video for future training. Yes, it’s all about hope — offering hope through empathy and bearing to real suffering! Thank you so much for your wisdom!

  6. carniekatie said,

    Wrote on July 27, 2012 @ 6:07 pm

    is this not the human experiance? hypocricy, pain and suffering? you cannot “get real” in todays modern society, it doesn’t work. honesty is distructive and isolating. life is the disease- death is the cure, my poor friend.

  7. digitaltango said,

    Wrote on July 27, 2012 @ 6:52 pm

    You have just described my breakdown! Two years of terror and I thought of suicide relentlessly. Thankfully, I survived. I have written about my experiences of depression and terror in my piece ‘Hope, Time and Love’ about the possibilities of healing after this kind of experience.

  8. misterbs1 said,

    Wrote on July 27, 2012 @ 6:53 pm

    Spot on! Splendid and simple presentation.

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