Question about sex, psychology and pornstars.?

Question by Dan D: Question about sex, psychology and pornstars.?
Everyone who knows what is emotionally healthy will tell you that having a single partner and having commitment in that relationship is the best thing. My question is: How are pornstars affected by sleeping with so many different couples who don´t mean anything to them? Can they fall in love? CAn they have normal feelings? I would interview one of them, but I don’t have anyone to interview. It seems to me that they would have serious emotional repercussions. Can they stop whenever they want or do they become addicted? What do they think of marriage, intimacy?

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Answer by lord flame
they keep on dong it.just stripping and dukeing.and its ngood to

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  1. NBGirl said,

    Wrote on January 25, 2012 @ 8:40 pm

    im sure they can have normal feelings and fall in love because to them porn is just their job. a relationship would probably work best though if they were both porn stars.

  2. Harold T said,

    Wrote on January 25, 2012 @ 8:42 pm

    its healthy if you married

  3. sober_trip said,

    Wrote on January 25, 2012 @ 9:01 pm

    That is a good question but i think about it this way: A person who decides to be a pornstar, especially a guy, would have a state of mind concerned with only money and sex. I’m not sure if theyre happy, but i’m sure they don’t think of marriage and intimacy in the same lines of the average person. Show me the porn star that is happily married and wont get divorced in 3 years and i’ll stand corrected.

  4. !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i said,

    Wrote on January 25, 2012 @ 9:34 pm

    interestin question….may b i can do a research on it!

  5. jmvc1998 said,

    Wrote on January 25, 2012 @ 10:03 pm

    I saw a Showtime special called “Pornicopia”(I think) anyway they interview porn stars and many of them said sex at work and sex in a relationship is very different. They don’t need to be “on” for the camera so… the sex is less showy and more real. Hope this helps.

  6. mark said,

    Wrote on January 25, 2012 @ 10:36 pm

    they must fall for someone but its there job not too. thats why most of them end up in drugs because there unhappy and that keeps them out of depression. Most of them always come out in e true hollywood storys as that.

  7. topgunpilot22 said,

    Wrote on January 25, 2012 @ 11:19 pm

    I’ll admit I’ve been to afew porn expo events in many areas of the country and have actually met alot of the girls in the videos and magazines. Many married and dating and most have said its just like being a stripper you go in early in the morning take your clothes off for afew hours then in the afternoon you go home to your husband or wife. They aren’t sleeping with the guys they are having physical relations its a wham bam thank you ma’am deal everyone has had atleast one in their life the people in porn just do it and also get paid very well might I add.

  8. latina44572002 said,

    Wrote on January 25, 2012 @ 11:49 pm

    Go to a strip bar and talk to a stripper and ask her this question. Porn stars and strippers are human beings. The also have feelings, love others and have a spirit. I am not a porn star nor a prostitute but I think they are able to separate the feelings part with the business part. Think of you having sex during a one night stand and compare it with making love to someone you have feelings for….see the difference?

  9. lildarlinkristisue said,

    Wrote on January 26, 2012 @ 12:03 am

    I think that thay are caught up in this fictional fantasy world. I think it would be impossible to have a normal caring relationship (with ANYONE)
    Most are drug addicted and have numbed themselves to do what they do.
    I also firmly believe that women who go into this industry wheter it be porn, prostitution or stripping have had been either sexually abused or have father issues. They feel this is the only attention they deserve or it validates them as a worthy person the only way they know how.
    As for the men, for most in the industry it is probably the ultimate sexual fantasy come true.
    When you are exposed to such raunchy sexual behavior day in and day out, you become desensitized to it. Sex becomes merely an act devoid of all meaning.

    If you word it right, you can justify just about anything.

  10. chante c said,

    Wrote on January 26, 2012 @ 12:40 am

    For some its not that they are affected by it, but its the type of childhood they had which caused them to become pornstars, so what happens now it cancels out all judgements of the heart and it becomes a neurological disorder in the brain. For some, prolly are trapped in it and theres no way out and for the others they do it just because they want to, they like the pleasure it brings.

    Love u ask, what love got to do with it? Some of these people may never have been exposed to love much more falling in love themselves. they prolly might just laugh at you or there faces in wonder

  11. Bev said,

    Wrote on January 26, 2012 @ 12:40 am

    I think it becomes just like a job to them. Like acting. You can separate emotional love from physical sex quite easily, ask any prostitute.

  12. Scott said,

    Wrote on January 26, 2012 @ 1:22 am

    I’m sure many of them adapt to it or get used to it, but from what I’ve heard many people go get into that as a career are kind of messed up in the first place emotionally. Maybe they have a strong need to feel desired and sexy, or maybe they are just lacking in traditional sexual morals, but usually people who are well adjusted do something more socially acceptable as a career.

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