Every time I think of my husband’s background, I see how far he has been able to come. Sometimes I think that my husband is just a mess, but then when I think of the progress that he has made, I feel really proud of him. My husband grew up in a very difficult situation and was never taken care of as a child. He was very physically abused. For this reason, he has a very difficult time controlling his anger. He has never hurt me or the children. However, he is easily provoked and we have had to hire a Little Ferry disorderly conduct lawyer in the past.